Raising Multi-Cultural Children

Not matter what box you check for yourself or your child; you are raising a multi-cultural child.  In my home this is particularly true because my husband and I come from different cultural backgrounds and have both been exposed to many different cultures that influence our home life.  We each speak more than 1 language, we eat a variety of foods from different cultures, we listen to a variety of music, and we attend events that are representative of our varying cultural perspectives. My husband and I should not be the exception in how we expose our child to the world. You cannot escape the fact that the U.S. is a diverse place and in order to live you need to be aware of and comfortable with difference.

Statistics show that by 2020 the majority of the U.S. will no longer be Caucasian.  I teach in two fields that use the demographic information of the country and I use this information in my courses often.  I think we have already arrived at a society in which the people with “brown faces” have outnumbered the people with “white faces.”  Being aware of and able to work side-by-side with and live with people of a variety of cultures is no longer optional.  I haven’t had the pleasure of visiting every state in the union, so I’m sure there are some places where you can go and still have a homogeneous experience. But if you want your child to be mobile, have options, be successful, and not be isolated then you need to be raising a multi-cultural child.

K-12 schools are more diverse (as are the snacks & lunches kids bring with them); diverse school lead to diverse college campuses; which leads to a diverse work-force  – at least 50% of current jobs ask if you are bi-lingual (usually this is code for Spanish, but knowing another language other than English is helpful).

So…along with reciting the ABCs, counting, teaching hand-washing, stranger-danger, and ALL of those other big & small lessons we teach…we should be exposing our children as often as possible to other cultures. And not just in passing or as a tourist attraction type of thing – as a fact of our daily lives.  Role model acceptance and awareness.

  1. Invite a family from your child’s class over for a play-date, lunch, or dinner
  2. buy a book or watch a video/movie that introduces a new culture
  3. if you watch Nick, Jr. or Sprout talk about the different characters and their value
  4. learn a song or poem in a different language (together) and then look up something about that culture to discuss
  5. cook a meal from a different culture together
  6. if funds allow – travel to a place where you can experience a different culture first-hand

Here’s a resource or two to help:

Teaching Your Child Tolerance

From Scholastic

More4Kids

Teaching Tolerance

Diversity is not scary it is beautiful and it is our reality!

P.S. In my world multiculturalism and diversity goes beyond race and ethnicity, but I know that for many people exploring different racial groups and ethnicity is a start. But int he true sense of diversity we include ability, gender, religion, sexual orientation, etc.

Ponytails

A tentative semi-quiet voice asks “Mommy? Ponytails?”

Huh? Did my son just ask me to put his hair in a ponytail?

“What did you say pumpkin?”

Taking his almost non-existent low afro hair in each hand and pulling outward he repeats himself louder and more assertively “Mommy. Ponytails!”

“O.K. honey.”

We finish drying off from bath and putting on lotion. Daddy comes in to read a story and I put some bobby pins in his hair and say “Here baby boy. Ponytails.”

He smiles broadly.

Daddy rolls his eyes and sucks his teeth.

If my baby boy wants ponytails then I’m gonna give him ponytails, even if he doesn’t have enough hair to do so.

Damn those cute little girls in his class who get their hair put in ponytails by the teachers! It’s special individual time with a teacher and now my son wants that too.

I’m taking barrettes to day care tomorrow so they can give him ponytails too!

Fighting for Title IX with Legal Advocacy

This is an important, historical and ongoing issue!

AAUW Dialog

This week, as we celebrate Title IX’s 40th birthday and the advances the law has inspired for gender equity, it’s worth remembering AAUW’s year-round efforts to support women who have challenged sex discrimination in education. AAUW’s Legal Advocacy Fund has been instrumental in the success of many gender discrimination cases — in education and in the workplace — during its 31-year history. LAF’s case-support program provides financial and organizational backing for a select number of lawsuits that have the potential to set significant precedents for gender equity. The funds to do this come directly from the generous contributions of AAUW members. Other LAF initiatives include community and campus outreach programs, our Online Resource Library with downloadable advocacy tools, a Legal Referral Network, and research reports.

One case in which LAF played a major role is Mansourian v. Regents of the University of California. LAF first took…

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